A deeper look at what’s really breaking relationships apart
Every couples therapist will tell you the same thing: communication is the problem.
Learn to listen. Use “I” statements. Practice empathy. Maintain a 5-to-1 ratio of positive to negative interactions.
It’s good advice. It’s scientifically backed. And for many couples, it helps — at least for a while.
But here’s the question nobody seems to ask:
What happens when the tools run out?
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